Are you worried about leg pullers?
Do you have people who envy you and want you to fail?
What would be your reaction if someone might think about you that way?
Keep those emotions with you, as I know how that feels.
However, this post is not about them now. But about some people whom you admire.
Some people might hate me for writing this post, as I am sharing a harsh reality. However, it is not about everyone but a fraction of people. Let’s get started.
The Wishes of Doctors and Lawyers
What do you think a doctor’s wish would be?
Obviously, to grow their business.
How do you think their business grows?
Their business grows when people fall ill and visit them.
Am I wrong?
You can keep the response with you as things are crystal clear to everyone.
I don’t mean to offend anyone. But the majority of the doctors’ wishes would be the same.
If you are a doctor or someone you know is a doctor, and they are good human beings like Dr Ganesh Rakh from Pune, this post is not about you. I mean it.
Dr Ganesh Rakh is serving women in his way, and he is doing a great job. You can also visit his website to know more about him.
Now, coming to lawyers, they would wish to have clashes in the society and people to visit courts. Again this is not about the righteous ones.
Even if some lawyers fight for you, they would want you to fail. —As you would work with them for a long time, and they get benefited through you.
It is described clearly in a Telugu movie S/O Aravinda Sameta Veera Raghava. If you are a movie buff, you can watch this movie. It’s available in Hindi also. (and if you don’t know these two languages, subtitles are there for your rescue.)
Sharing these two stories reminded me of an incident with my old friend. That story is for another post. Now, coming to the point, there are people whom we consider as Pole Star. However, the majority of them are not that way, and they want you to fail. Are you confused? Then stay tuned
Do the Coaches Want You to Fail?
We live in a country where parents send their kids to a specific guru whom they feel is the right person. And that guru would be good in whatever he teaches.
However, we live in a society where people go for an MBA program to learn to be an entrepreneur. The irony is, the professors would be the people who don’t have any real experience in the business.
This piece of the story is just a tiny part of the equation.
My friend came to me and mentioned that he could start an agency and scale it well.
Can you guess what the reason would be?
Yes, he completed a course on how to run an agency and scale it to constant profits. And he believed that he could straight away start an agency and stay profitable.
The majority are that way. Due to this, many fake coaches emerged. And they want you to fail. — So that you would be buying courses from them. The funny part is, some of them wouldn’t be having any achievement to show.
A Simple Hack
Do you want to be safe from such people?
Never get coached by the people who are full-time coaches.
Never learn from a mentor whose full-time profession is mentoring.
In simple words, never learn from people who are not doing what they teach practically.
The reason is, they might have a solid knowledge of their area of focus. However, things are changing and evolving rapidly. So, their knowledge might have become obsolete. And it might not serve you anything.
What do you think? If you are with me, comment as “They want you to fail” in the comments below.
Well! Whatever you said was 100% true!
Yes, Dristi and thank you for sharing your thought