If you have read my previous article on the butterfly effect, you may feel why do we have struggles in life if everything happens for a reason?

I can feel you! Because I always had the same question, why do I have these struggles? Why is life so unfair towards me? All of this sort.

But I understood that the mastermind that plans the events in our life is a teacher or a parent.

Struggles in Life are to Help You Learn Your Lesson

Let’s go to your childhood. Sorry, you don’t remember most of the important events in your childhood. So, let’s consider some kids in your neighbourhood.

When they did something wrong, what would their mother do? If it is the first time, she will say with love and affection. If it repeats for the second time, she will warn you. If it keeps on repeating with time, she starts punishing.

The same goes for the teachers as well. When you commit any mistake, they will warn first, and if it keeps on repeating, then the severity of the punishment increases.

In the same way, the mastermind behind our life also does the same. If you are a good student of it, your life will be easy. But if you are a poor one, then you are going to have a hard time. But it is to help you grow.

How to Understand the Language of that Mastermind to Make Our Life Easy

Life/mastermind speaks in the universal language. It means anyone can understand it if trained. It may also communicate through any channel. Sometimes it may happen through a kid or a moving bus or a tree or some irrelevant event.

I will share one of the incidents which happened in my life. I was so passionate about teaching. So, I opted for teaching when I had to go for a job. However, I started facing different challenges in different schools. Because of that, I worked in 3 schools, one school at a time, in 70 days.

Sometimes you face challenges to understand that something is not for you.

I will share a glimpse of what I faced in each school:

1. Senior faculty tried to push blame on me for his shortcomings. As— Result, I joined another school the very next working day as I hadn’t liked management’s decision.
2. The principal always conducts meetings to show her authority for no reason. I quit the job in a month and looked for another. (I haven’t understood that teaching is not for me unless it is my school)
3. Some manipulation took place. So I had to quit my job, and I lost some money also because they didn’t pay me.
4. In the fourth school, I lost four times the money I lost in the previous school, and the journey was super hard, and six months of my time got wasted.

If I had taken my lesson after my encounter with the first school itself, I would have saved a lot of time and money. And my journey became hard as I haven’t taken my lesson.

Final Thoughts

Follow your heart. Understand the language of the universe. (Simple hack is to follow your heart). Pay close attention to the events in your life to make better decisions. If you aren’t able to understand that language, you can reach out to me. And I will help you probably.

I hope you got a perspective on this? Let me know if my post is resonating with you by commenting below.