I have been trying a lot, but I am not getting any results. I have been putting in 100% effort, it has been more than three months, but I am not getting any results. — Maybe this is not for me. Maybe I should go back to what I have been doing before.

Am I going in the right direction?

Have you ever got any of those thoughts in your life?

If the answer is yes, then probably it is due to two reasons.

1. You are not skilled enough.
2. You are in virtual reality.
3. You are not putting in enough effort. — As we considered, you put 100% effort, this option is omitted.

The Challenges You Face — Are You in a Virtual World?

If the case is that you are not skilled enough, there are two possible reasons:

1. You are not putting enough effort to sharpen your axe.
2. You bought the thought that you are not efficient enough, and your thoughts turn into your reality.

However, there are many stories of people who became heroes from zero. It is due to either two reasons:

1. You don’t have any option other than breaking those patterns.
2. You start accepting the facts and start working towards making yourself better.

In the second case, it is nothing but coming out of the virtual world. So, let’s get into that part.

Are You Really in Virtual World?

What is the problem with being in the virtual world?

You assume everything and worry over those things that don’t exist at all.

You fight the battles that aren’t there at all. If your imagination is so strong, you don’t even listen to others who try to throw light on the facts and be there only.

I have seen one of my friends who has decided to change the field and enter into a new profession. However, he has been assuming a lot of things.

I don’t mean offence or anything to demean his actions. However, he was working hard to make it in the new profession. But he started losing hope and started thinking about going back to his previous trade.

I also have been there, and I used to think that everyone was like me. I used to trust everyone. I used to listen seriously to all the bullshit people told as I couldn’t understand the facts. — And become a laughing stock.

Everything has a maturity period if you have a learning attitude. When you get the right time for introspection — when you become a student of life, — You realise what are the things you are missing out on and start taking steps towards the right direction.

That is how you can come out of the virtual world.

There is one more category of people in the virtual world who assume they are something and have a fixed mind over everything and defend and won’t listen if someone throws light on it.

Final Thoughts

I am not sure if you are in the virtual world or not. However, I know what you can do to make sure that you won’t enter into virtual reality even by mistake.

It is by listening to the people with an open mind and do your homework to check if what you got to know is correct or not. Sometimes it might also need you to go against your beliefs.